Somewhere along the way this veered away from what I thought it would be. A blog about getting debt free in two years. HAH! The inspiration was the One Red Paperclip guy. Surely if he could trade a paperclip for a house I could find a clever way to raise money to pay off my debt and help others with my humor and ingenuity, right?
Have I discovered the best way to get debt free? No. Am I debt free? No. Was I as clever and dedicated as I wanted to be? Definitely not.
I have lived so much since I first started this blog. So today this becomes what it is supposed to be today…an expression of freedom. Freedom to think, feel and say what you want.
Hello, to everyone who reads this. To those who have been reading my sporadic posts. To those who are unsure what to think and feel about the America we live in. I’ll get into this later.
Today, I really started the process of getting debt free. Unfortunately I had to start with a debt management company. Yep you know the ones. I had to. I have been drowning for years, with no relief in sight. I tried a debt consolidation loan and that put me in deeper than ever, the interest rate was huge and life happened. I had to use the credit cards again for a medical emergency. When you hear that people are one paycheck away from being in trouble if a medical emergency occurs. Believe them…I found out the hard way. My wonderful hubby is going to have to have spinal surgery so my medical issues are not over.
So…here I found myself stressed beyond comprehension. Working every single angle to get by…including dipping into my retirement…just trying to survive. Every minute of day, every week, every month an insurmountable collection of debt. I had to do something drastic.
Here are the goals:
- get rid of credit card debt
- get rid of car payments
- get rid of medical payments
- get my kids through college
- find an effective side hustle that can actually generate money (I have a whole blog series that will get into this)
- retire my husband so he doesn’t injure his spine further.
It doesn’t seem like a realistic lift, but I can assure you it is. I will not be drowning.
Since 2020. I lost 2 of my 3 income streams.
I had a full time job and two substantial clients. Since 2020, I started a new job. A great move. But I lost my two clients, they were unsustainable, and required more than I was willing to give outside of the scope of what we were contracted to do. But that was a combined loss that amounted to more than my one salary, which immediately put me under. I worked more than I have ever worked to keep up. I didn’t have the time to put in to find more clients that could make up for the two I lost, so I found several that could try to make up for what I had lost but without time to put into it it proved a feat of epic proportions. I took out the consolidation loan, I paid off most of the credit cards, I felt like I was making a bit of headway. Still on the cusp of overwhelmed but OK.
For almost two years I was making it each month but 2022 almost drowned me. My youngest had many mental health issues resulting from the COVID shut down, she landed in the hospital twice and had a suicide attempt and the medical bills started rolling in. Yes, we had insurance but that did not matter, insurance does not cover everything and you have to meet a deductible. I was still facing more bills than I could handle, so things started to falter. I was stubborn, not looking at reality…with the mindset “I spent the money I should pay it back. Its the right thing to do.” Until this month when I had to face facts, I was drowning. I needed help and had to ask for it. It was either bankruptcy or a debt management company. After many conversations I went with debt management, its going to kill my credit for the next year but better than the other option, bankruptcy which would kill my credit for about 7 years, and my creditors would see nothing. I did consult financial people. One was ColorMyCredit.com, Alisa has terrific advice. Her social media, TikTok in particular has amazing advice. Another was DebtFreeLatina.com, Mayra is so easy to talk to. You don’t have to be Latina in order to use her common sense approach to debt. I am not making any money by referring these two sites. I respect their advice.
I have some uncertain times still ahead as my husband goes in for surgery. As debt collectors start calling me to ask where their money is, until the debt management company, Accredited Debt Relief, attempts negotiate my debt down. But getting out from under some of the interest rates I was paying will definitely help.
FYI…I will be adding links to affiliate sites in future posts. If you like the stuff, it will help me for you to use my links to buy, but if you don’t want to just ignore. Or look at the stuff I use and then ignore it. I am very loyal to the brands I love.
There will also be political and personal feelings posts. So if you don’t like what I have to say don’t read it and don’t leave hateful posts. It takes too much energy for you and for me. It also accomplishes nothing.
As ever yours, I am who I am.